Tuesday, March 3, 2026

Arrival in the Democratic Republic of the Congo


It has been nearly two months since my last post on the blog, and the reader likely feels that I owe him something in the way of an explanation for this absence. Very well, he will have it. 

On January 11, arrived back in the US from Cameroon. I had not initially planned this stop back home, but it was rendered necessary because of the need to apply for a long stay Schengen visa. My plans involved a protracted period of study in Lisbon in the spring. However, the Lord had other plans, and so it was that my application came back ungranted. After some time of discernment and prayer, I felt quite certain Our Lord wished me to go to the Democratic Republic of the Congo. I had, during my stay in Yaoundé, met several Congolese brothers who encouraged me to make the trip to Kinshasa because of the great potential for Children’s Rosary groups there. Therefore, I reached out to the contacts I had been given, made arrangements, applied for a visa, and—after a few fits and starts regarding the latter, finally had the visa in hand on Friday, February 20. Within a matter of hours, the flights were scheduled, the airport pickup coordinated, the half-packed bags brought forth and filled with clothing. I would fly out the following Monday. 

However, within a few hours of the booking, it became clear that the flights would need to be delayed. A monster storm system was due to slam the East Coast on Monday, thus rendering any arrivals or departures increasingly unlikely. 

Accordingly, the flights were shifted to Tuesday, and then finally off I went. The flights themselves went off without a hitch, and at 7:15 p.m. local time on Wednesday, I got off the plane at Kinshasa N’djili International Airport. 

As the large Air France jet trundled up to the arrivals hall, I soaked in my first sights of the Congo. It was quite a warm night, not even touching below 75 degrees Fahrenheit; this was quite a strong difference for one who had just come tromping in from several inches of snow. 

The customs hall was not large, but it was thankfully only our flight that was arriving at that time. Despite the usual delays of clearing passport control, I did not encounter any problems, having received my visa already stamped in my passport. Upon collecting my baggage, I went outside where I was approached by Fr. Francois Ouamba, the priest from the Missionaries of the Holy Apostles here in Kinshasa. He had agreed to host me during my stay and pick me up at the airport. He had come with Fr. Apollinaire, another MSA priest assigned to the mission in Kinshasa. Both are Cameroonian. Br. Samuel was also present, a seminarian for the MSA community completing pastoral work between his second and third years of seminary. 

Quickly finding our way to their parked car, all four of us managed to get the bags to fit in the limited space, climbed in ourselves, and were on our way. 

It turned out that Fr. Francois could not house me at his compound but instead put me up with a religious community down the road; they were part of the Society of the Most Holy Sacrament founded by St. Peter Julian Eymard. (picture below)

I was given quite a spacious room in the guest quarters and told Mass would be the next morning at 6:00 a.m., certainly enough incentive to get showered and quickly into bed. 

The next morning after Mass, Lauds, and breakfast, I walked down with a brother named Alex to Fr. Francois’s house. This was the first time I could really get a look at Kinshasa in broad daylight. I am not quite sure what I was expecting, but what I saw was a city that looked remarkably similar to the other major metropoles of Africa that I had visited. The ground had a sandy quality to it like that of Dar es Salaam, and along the way children on their way to school or household chores nodded or smiled in greeting. 

Upon arriving at Fr. Francois’s place, I could see this was an operation that was still in the process of getting underway. The eventual goal is for the order to have a formation house on the property they currently own. However, much more money is needed for this, and they only have a part of it built. There are a couple of young men residing there and taking courses before they head off to Yaoundé for seminary. Further, Br. Samuel is there completing his pastoral year. 

After I had gone around the premises with Fr. Francois and had lunch, I came back to the SSS (Society of the most Holy Sacrament) community for evening prayers. 

The next day, Friday, I had a surprise appointment I had not been expecting at the chancery for the Archdiocese of Kinshasa. My requests for an appointment regarding the Children’s Rosary had been quickly responded to, and Fr. Apollinaire graciously volunteered to drive me downtown, which ended up being no small feat in a city like Kinshasa. The traffic jams are downright terrible here, even worse than what I experienced in Nairobi or Dar es Salaam and probably only surpassed by Kampala. 

Kinshasa is a city of 17 million people, which for comparison, is more than twice the size of New York. The road infrastructure is limited severely overstressed, with cars, taxis, taxivans, semitrucks, pedestrians, motorcyclists, vendors, and hand-pulled wagons all competing for the very limited space. In addition, the roads are often in a deteriorated state, necessitating caution to navigate around areas of missing pavement and potholes. Not only this, but many of the cars are quite dilapidated themselves, so often when a large overloaded truck breaks down in the middle of the road, this can back up the road for a long distance just itself. Finally, the driving is quite aggressive, with cars often forcing their way to the left and right of the lane of traffic and then forcing their way back into traffic flow when they meet an obstacle such as oncoming traffic or some vendors on the side of the road. Thus, what ensues is a dead-stopped lane of cars with two also dead-stopped lanes on either side composed of cars trying to force their way into the already packed center lane. The handful of traffic lights downtown cycle through their reds, yellows, and greens, while motorists hardly pay them any mind. It is almost unbelievably stressful and difficult, and our drive lasted for nearly two and a half hours until we finally pulled into the chancery offices. I was so thankful that Fr. Apollinaire had been so good as to take me. 

The meeting succeeded in getting the ball rolling on diocesan approval for the Children’s Rosary to be started in parishes and schools, and so I was very happy I had been able to go. I first met with Fr. Clet, a dryly humorous but evidently also respected and efficient man who is the diocesan chancellor. He it was with whom I had been originally put in contact, and he wished for me to meet with the priest in charge of pastoral affairs, but that cleric was not in. Therefore, I was able to speak with his deputy who promised to present the information and materials I had conveyed to his superior at the earliest opportunity. 

That afternoon, after another very long and draining drive back, I reached the formation house completely exhausted. It is amazing how the traffic jams, especially when it is hot, humid, dusty, and loud, can cause such exhaustion. 


On Sunday, I went with Fr. Francois to a parish named St. Joseph of Arimathea where he and Fr. Apollinaire often celebrate Mass(picture above). The Mass was quite nice with a noticeably skilled choir and beautiful songs. Afterwards, we had lunch back at the MSA house with a couple of gentlemen from the parish, one of whom was a Latin and French teacher who had once been a seminarian. He was very nice, and I was glad to have gotten to know him. As someone who has taken years of Latin myself, it is a bit of a niche subject, and so finding someone else with whom I can relate a bit on the topic is always a nice development. 

Yesterday, since there were no definite plans given that the archdiocese had not responded yet about approval, I went to Fr. Francois’s funeral Mass back at the St. Joseph’s. I have now been to a few funerals and wakes in Africa, and this one was not so very different. The only major difference I noticed was that when the hearse left the parking lot after the Mass, it blared a loud siren, I suppose to make way for itself and also to announce its departure. Still, the sight of the leader of this solemn funeral procession, blaring and honking his way out of the parking lot made a distinct impression on me. That afternoon, I was able to finish some work and then go to Adoration and evening prayer. The Adoration occurs most days here as it is an integral part of their charism. A picture is attached.


Monday, March 2, 2026

Divine Mercy Conference 2026

 
A special thank you to those who both volunteered at our Children's Rosary booth this past weekend at the RDS in Dublin and all those who visited the booth. In the picture above Anne-Marie, Catherine and Ruth are shown. Each helped with distributing information about the Children's Rosary and answering questions about the Children's Rosary. Catherine wrote at the conclusion of Saturday that it was "an amazing day." Many new contacts were made which allows us to potentially involve more children in prayer. A thank you to Anne-Marie who made beautiful soaps and donated them to the Children's Rosary. These were very well received. 
Catherine shared after the event, "We were so inspired to meet many Children's Rosary leaders and teachers from all over Ireland who are witnessing the sanctification of children’s lives and that of their families, teachers and communities through the power of the Rosary. We met some groups who pray the Rosary with children in their schools and are now becoming Children’s Rosary members so we all unite in prayer for each other. Thanks also to Eddie and Tom Doherty of NET Ministries who kindly helped us with packing up at the end of the conference!"

Sunday, March 1, 2026

Mass Offered on March 1, 2026 for Seminarians

A Mass was offered on March 1, 2026 for all seminarians that they will grow in holiness and lead us all in love. Every month, we have a Mass offered for this intention. As our seminarians will be the future shepherds and our children are their future flock, it seemed a beautiful way for the children to help with their prayers.  It is our goal to feature a different seminarian on the first of the month every month by inviting him to share something of himself and giving all our readers the opportunity to pray for him. This month, we are featuring Br. Gabin Brice Tayrou, a seminarian in Cameroon. Asher was able to meet Br. Gabin during his visit to Yaoundé, Cameroon (see picture below). Br. Gabin is a member of the order of the Missionaries of the Holy Apostles. In addition to generously facilitating Asher’s stay in Cameroon, the MSA order has also helped to get Children’s Rosary groups up and running in and around Yaoundé. They are an Oder whose charism is the formation of priests, which they do for both dioceses and religious orders.


My vocation as I remember it 
It all started between 2001 and 2002 when my family moved to Mballa II, a neighborhood in Yaoundé. My mother quickly got into the habit of taking us to the 7 o’clock Mass at the nearest parish: Saints Peter and Paul of Mfoundi-Assi. It was during this Mass that I fell in love with the liturgy. At first, it was only admiration; until my mother took the initiative to enroll my older brother Daniel and me in catechism. From catechism, we were asked to join a parish group. That’s how the two of us joined the altar server group. What I admired, I could now experience. Shortly after beginning the Mass service, we left the initial catechism because the schedule conflicted with the group’s activities: we then dedicated ourselves exclusively to the Mass service. It was during those first years, more precisely in 2005, that I felt for the first time the call of the Lord. The triggering event was the funeral of the one who is today Saint John Paul II. I cannot explain how, but during that period I felt like a call to continue the work of the Holy Father, since he was no longer there. When I had to take the CEP and the entrance exam for 6th grade, I told my mother that I wanted to go to the minor seminary. But she explained to me that it was possible and preferable to first obtain the Baccalaureate and enter directly into the major seminary. She did not leave me much choice. I then took the entrance exam for Jean Tabi College, which I passed by the grace of God. It was also in that year, 2007, that my father began to express his reservations about our parish activities and my vocation. But with my mother's encouragement, I continued to attend the parish. When I got my baccalaureate in 2014, my father clearly refused for me to enter the major seminary. Not being of age and without his authorization for the major seminary, I resigned myself to pursuing studies in industrial robotics engineering for 5 years at the Faculty of Industrial Engineering in Douala (2014-2019). It was during my final year of study that I met the Society of Missionaries of the Holy Apostles, to which I belong today by the grace of God for already 7 years.

 


Friday, February 27, 2026

Children's Rosary in Brandon, Canada Leads Stations of the Cross


We received a lovely note this evening that the Children's Rosary at St. Augustine of Canterbury Church in Brandon, Canada. 
Brandon is in the Diocese of Winnipeg. The Children's Rosary led the Stations of the Cross at the parish this evening. They were joined by Fr. John Okosun shown in the picture above. This group recently had Children's Rosary sweatshirts and T-shirts made.


Thursday, February 26, 2026

February 2026 Meeting of the Children's Rosary in Hamburg, Germany

 

The Children's Rosary in Hamburg, Germany met last weekend to pray and also to put focus on Lent and the month of February which honors the Holy Family. After praying, they created a little Holy Family and also discussed the concept of sacrifices during Lent. Forty people including adults and children attended the Children's Rosary.

This Children's Rosary in Hamburg will celebrate their 4 year anniversary next month!

Wednesday, February 25, 2026

Mass Offered on February 25, 2026 for the Members of the Children's Rosary


A Mass was offered today for all the members of the Children's Rosary and all who help the Children's Rosary. We continue to have a Mass said for this intention on the twenty-fifth of each month. The Eucharist is such a powerful gift from Our Lord that when we wanted to extend thanksgiving to all of you, we knew of no better way to express gratitude. May Our Lord's love be poured down on all of you through the powerful sacrifice of the Holy Mass. 

The picture included in this post was taken during the January meeting of the Children's Rosary in Dormitz, Germany.

Tuesday, February 24, 2026

Departure for the Democratic Republic of the Congo

Asher Kaufman set off today to continue his missionary year spreading the Children's Rosary in Europe and Africa. His destination was the Democratic Republic of the Congo. His flight left Newark International Airport at 5:05PM and he will connect through Paris and then continue on to Kinshasa arriving at 6:30 PM local time on Wednesday February 25. He carries with him Children's Rosary books in English, French, Spanish, German and Portuguese. He also has over 500 handmade rosaries in his suitcases. Please keep his trip in your prayers. Upcoming dispatches will be posted HERE




Monday, February 23, 2026

Visit the Children's Rosary at the Divine Mercy Conference 2026 in Dublin

If you are attending the Divine Mercy Conference at the RDS in Dublin this weekend, please say hello to our Children's Rosary members who are helping to run a Children's Rosary informational table. This is our third year at the conference. There will be T-shirts, hoodies, pens, flyers and Children's Rosary balloons available at the table. 

The picture above was taken in 2024. A special thank you to Catherine of Co. Mayo, Ruth of Co. Louth, Anne-Marie of Co. Mayo, and Helena of Wexford for volunteering at the booth. We are still in need of volunteers at the booth. Please reach out to Catherine if you are available.  

Sunday, February 22, 2026

Pakistani Participation in the Lenten Journey 2026

We have been receiving lovely pictures from various Children's Rosary groups in Pakistan who are participating in the 40-Day Retreat on Suffering using the book, A Soul Prepared through Suffering.The picture above is from the Children's Rosary at Our Lady of Sorrows Parish in Kaur, Pakistan.
The pictures below are from the Children's Rosary at Sacred Heart School II, Rawalpindi, where they are also participating in the Lenten journey.

It is not too late to participate in the retreat. A link to all the daily readings can be found HERE.

Saturday, February 21, 2026

New Children's Rosary Forms at St. Balikuddembe Catholic Parish Buloba, Uganda

A Children's Rosary workshop was held on January 18, 2026, at St. Balikuddembe Catholic Parish Buloba in the Kampala Archdiocese of Uganda. Through this effort of Br. Henry Bukenya a new Children's Rosary has begun. This group meets weekly on Saturday mornings at 8:00 AM. A special thank you to the Children's Rosary group leader, Winfred Namuwonge.  

Friday, February 20, 2026

Children's Rosary at St. Joseph Church in Beirut, Lebanon, February 20, 2026

The Children's Rosary at St. Joseph Church in Beirut, Lebanon, met today to hold their monthly Children's Rosary. Twenty-five children attended the meeting. The children prayed in Arabic.


Thursday, February 19, 2026

Children's Rosary Begins at St. Mark de Soa Parish in Cameroon


We are excited to share that a new Children's Rosary has formed at St. Mark de Soa parish in the Archdiocese of Yaoundé. Yaoundé is in the capital of Cameroon. Their first meeting was January 24, 2026. We welcome this new group to the Children's Rosary. The children pray in French. Br. Ulrich Gabriel Atsama founded the group at his home parish. He is a seminarian with the Missionaries of the Holy Apostles. We are grateful for his help. Tantine Therese Blanche is the group leader shown below with a pink shirt. 



Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Children's Rosary in Montreux, Switzerland February 14, 2026

 We received this lovely picture from the Children's Rosary meeting on February 14 in Montreux, Switzerland. This group was able to hold their meeting during Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament.

Monday, February 16, 2026

Online Version of A Soul Prepared through Suffering Released

 

Online Version of the Journey
We are excited to announce that we will have a free online version of the 40-Day Retreat on Suffering available for Lent. The complete journey is now available through the link above. There is no cost to participate! If you would like to order a book, this can be done below. The book is ideal for adults and young people and follows seamlessly the Child Consecration book.
The Book is Available to Order
Here is a link to the epilogue, which details my own journey with suffering. 
A Soul Prepared through Suffering draws souls to a greater simplicity of spirit often associated with St. Thérèse, the Little Flower, and St. Jean Marie Vianney. This book is for those in the trenches of suffering and for those yet to be put to the test, for it prepares people to understand that suffering shared by a loving God works in ways nothing else can. As God is the director of each of our stories, you may see yourself reflected in this book and find it helps each time you go through it in a different way. Put in the time for this 40-Day journey, and you will find you are different on the other side. 
Imprimatur Granted by Archbishop Leonard Blair of the Archdiocese of Hartford, CT, USA

Sunday, February 15, 2026

A Missionary Spirit

On February 6, Asher and I attended a liturgy at St. Maron's Maronite Catholic Church in Torrington, Connecticut. The Pastor, Fr. Fadi Khawand, was very excited to see a Children's Rosary begin at his parish. However he humbly asked that children come to his parish to demonstrate a Children's Rosary and pray with his parishioners in order to expose everyone to the idea. After the Children's Rosary meeting in my own home parish on February 7, I mentioned to Stephanie, the mother of one of our most faithful members at the West Hartford Children's Rosary, about Fr. Fadi Khawand's request. She wrote Saturday evening, February 14, to say that her daughter, Peyton, was available to help. Thus with very little notice we gathered the materials and roses for a Children's Rosary on February 15. Only Peyton was able to come, but she was not intimidated. She led the Rosary prayers beautifully and placed flowers before a picture of Our Lady at the end of each decade along with other adults who were uniting in prayer from the pews. 

At the end of the liturgy that followed the Rosary, Peyton gave parishioners a rose from the Children's Rosary. There were many smiles in the Church this morning, and people were visibly joyful to hear a sweet young voice leading the Holy Rosary. Two families were interested in forming a Children's Rosary at St. Maron's Church. Another parishioner asked that we make a visit to her Church in a neighboring town. Praise God that the response was very good. At the heart of this effort was a child who said yes when asked to help bring more children to prayer. Peyton has a missionary spirit for Our Lord, and after todays experience she was overjoyed to visit another Church and invite yet more children to pray. 

Across from where we sat in the pews during Mass there was a large stained glass window of St. Thérèse the little flower holding an arm full of roses. As I looked at Peyton she seemed a beautiful reflection of St. Thérèse, a patron of missionaries.



Friday, February 13, 2026

Mass Offered on February 13, 2026 for the Holy Souls in Purgatory


A Mass was offered today for the Holy Souls. Currently the Children's Rosary has had three monthly Masses offered on the first of each month for seminarians that they will grow in holiness and lead us in love, on the first Saturday for renewal of family prayer, on the 25th of the month for all the members of the Children's Rosary and all who help the Children's Rosary.

We now have a monthly Mass offered for the Holy Souls in Purgatory on the 13th of each month.

Thursday, February 12, 2026

Remembering Jeff Batter

On February 6, Jeff Batter passed away unexpectedly. He was a dear friend to the Children's Rosary and spouse of one of our Children's Rosary group leaders, Cheryl Batter. Jeff helped in recording the instrumental portion of our Children's Rosary theme song and recorded a version of the song with his vocals which is present on our Sorrowful Mysteries Children's Rosary CD. He also helped in recording multiple other songs that appear on our Children's Rosary CDs. He provided all of this help generously as a gift. Please keep him in your prayers. A link to information about his upcoming funeral can be found HERE.

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Plenary Indulgence Available on February 9


February 9 is the Feast of St. Maron, who is the founder of the Maronite Catholic Church. This is an eastern rite Church in full communion with the worldwide Catholic Church. Pope Benedict XVI instituted the ability for the faithful to obtain a Plenary Indulgence by visiting a Maronite Church on February 9 in honor of this special Feast. Yesterday Asher and I attended a Divine Liturgy at St. Maron Church in Torrington, Connecticut. 

The evening was an early celebration of St. Maron's Feast. A wonderful Lebanese meal followed. Fr. Fadi Khawand is originally from Lebanon and was previously assigned to St. Joseph Church in Beirut where we have a Children's Rosary prayer group. Fr. Khawand is very excited by the idea of starting a Children's Rosary at his current parish in Torrington. We were able to share with him handmade rosaries and Children's Rosary books in both English and Arabic to help in his efforts to begin a group.

Saturday, February 7, 2026

Remembering Jackie Tiul

On the Feast of the Presentation, beloved Children's Rosary group leader Jackie Tiul passed away after a long battle with cancer. Jackie led a Children's Rosary prayer group for many years at the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception in Waterbury, Connecticut. Her group always met on the first Saturday of each month. Despite her illness, she was faithful to leading this group. She will be dearly missed. Please remember Jackie in your prayers. Her funeral will be held on February 9.

Information can be found about the wake and funeral HERE.

Thursday, February 5, 2026

Apostolic Nuncio from Cameroon Conveys Support for the Children's Rosary

 

Mgr. José Avelino Bettencourt, the apostolic nuncio to Cameroon, conveyed the above correspondence to Asher after Asher had returned to the United States. Mgr. Bettencourt is quite known and respected across Cameroon, and we were honored that he had been so kind as to express his support for our efforts there and around the world.

Saturday, January 31, 2026

Release of "A Soul Prepared through Suffering" in Urdu


This past week the Urdu version of the book "A Soul Prepared through Suffering" was released. This is a 40-Day retreat on suffering which is perfect to use during Lent. Children's Rosary groups in Pakistan will have access to using these to enrich their Lenten journey. This book in English is available to order in the US, England, and Ireland HERE

Friday, January 30, 2026

Release of the Portuguese Children's Rosary Book

We are excited to announce the release of the Portuguese version of the Children's Rosary book. These are currently only available through the Domestic Monastery in the United States. If there is interest in these books in other countries please send an email to Blythe at blythe@childrensrosary.org

The books can be ordered Here

Please note that the item has a drop down menu to pick the language you wish to order. A number of languages are available. 

Monday, January 26, 2026

The Children's Rosary in Claudy Co. Derry Turns Four!


We received these lovely pictures from the Children's Rosary at St. Patrick's Church in Claudy Co. Derry, Northern Ireland. They met on December 6  to celebrate their fourth Anniversary. They gathered to pray around the crib and then finished off their meeting enjoying some sweets. They meet monthly on the first Saturday of the month. 
Members of this group also participated in the Christ the King Eucharistic Procession in Derry. They helped to lead the Rosary that day and shared the picture below. 

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Mass Offered on January 25, 2026 for the members of the Children's Rosary


A Mass was offered today for all the members of the Children's Rosary and all who help the Children's Rosary. 
We continue to have a Mass said for this intention on the twenty-fifth of each month. The Eucharist is such a powerful gift from Our Lord that when we wanted to extend thanksgiving to all of you, we knew of no better way to express gratitude. May Our Lord's love be poured down on all of you through the powerful sacrifice of the Holy Mass. 

The pictures included in this post were taken during a meeting of the Children's Rosary from St. John the Baptist Parish in Front Royal, Virginia USA. They meet every Thursday at 3:30 PM in front of the Blessed Sacrament. The children can be seen placing roses before the statue of Our Lady in the picture above.