Showing posts with label Fasting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fasting. Show all posts

Thursday, October 4, 2018

Leaving the Freezer into the Light of the Sun

Today is day 6 of our 9 Days of Prayer and Fasting. Through this journey we see many beautiful things happening. Earlier this week I shared a little experience. After receiving Communion on Saturday, an image or shall I say a thought came. It was of a snowball. I began to understand as I thought about this snowball that although a certain number of souls had begun the fast others could be added...much like a snowball being rolled through the snow which gets bigger and bigger. We shared a few days ago a picture of a snowball that my son had kept in our freezer since winter. In prayer this week I began to think about this little ball of snow that we took from the freezer. When we took it out it was dirty. The container it was kept in had developed a crack and then a hole. I suspect the container and its contents had fallen out of our freezer several times accidentally. When we took it out I was sad to see it had bits of dirt on the surface. I wondered how to get rid of them. As it was warm we decided to just take it outside and snap some pictures despite the dirt. We wanted to capture the snowball before it was gone. 

The picture above is of the snowball when we first came outside. If you look closely you will see the dirt. Something interesting happened as we were outside. With the bright sun shining down, not only did the snowball get smaller as it melted but the traces of dirt seemed to vanish. As my daughter took the pictures we were sad to see the snowball get smaller but we were happy to see it was clean. It had a new look to it. It seemed translucent in places and reflected in a more beautiful way... more like a crystal. 

In prayer this week as the fast has progressed I was reminded of this little snowball. In reality it was more like a hunk of ice after all these months. I began to see this hunk of ice in our freezer as my heart. A heart on ice so to speak with lots of dirt on its surface. This fast was bringing my heart out of the freezer. It was bringing to light all the flaws and imperfections. Our Lord was melting away all these things with the warmth and light of His love. 

When life is busy and the world is around you it is sometimes easier to just leave your heart on ice. It is hard to crack it open. It is hard to recognize one's blemishes. By the grace of God, a fast with prayer brings the grace to be cleansed of even our unknown faults. I humbly thank all of the souls who are joining us on this 9 days of prayer and fasting. If you haven't begun there is still time. Today during Mass a thought came. Our Lord was able to remove the dirt very quickly when the ice was brought into the sun. He can do a lot with even a small amount of time. Put great trust into the fast and Our Lord will not disappoint. To learn more about the fast click HERE.

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Friday, September 28, 2018

An Invitation


Recently in prayer an image came. It was of a young child swimming in the ocean. He moved along well. His destination was clearly ahead of him. It was an island. The child knew this was his home and he put all his effort into getting there. In prayer a scene began to unfold. Time was elapsing. The child was aging and growing older. As the child swam something took hold of his leg. It was much like sea weed. The weed was anchored to the bottom of the water. It seemed to make every effort to wrap itself around the boy’s leg. More of these weeds began to do the same thing.

The weeds not only stopped the progression of the swimming towards the island but also pulled the boy lower into the water. He struggled. But with so many weeds now around the boy he was pulled down below the surface of the water. Now imagine that the boy was able to remain under the water without perishing. As more weeds continued to take hold and others tightened, the boy was drawn deeper and deeper under the water. While at first the boy could see just beneath the surface of the water the light and at times he even could caught a glimpse of the island in the distance, however, as he sank lower he could see nothing. He began to forget which direction was the island. Was it in front or behind? He was disoriented. After a time he forgot about the island and even began to not notice the weeds. He became comfortable under the water. He began to enjoy some of the things that were around him. He no longer realized he was disoriented in his direction and was content where he was and made no effort to resist the weeds.

This general scene was something that seemed to come in prayer…prayer mixed with imagination perhaps. But the idea was something I rolled around in my head some weeks ago.

The idea came back this week in prayer and more unfolded. I thought of each of us..myself perhaps in the situation of the world. When we are born in our innocence we see things in simplicity more clearly. Our hearts are open to prayer and love. When exposed to prayer and God through our parents we move quickly along the spiritual journey toward the home we seek: union with God and eternity in heaven. As we grow the world tries to tie us down. If we are not careful, we begin to be drawn more toward the world then to God. We begin to have attachments in the world. We lose our direction and often do not even realize how many attachments have taken hold and how strong they have become. 

I thought of the young person in the story beneath the water. He certainly is not alone. Many may be under the water as well. I imagined Our Blessed Mother, always watching with concern for her children, wanting to help them, wanting to guide them. A safety line is lowered to the boy. It is a Rosary. It is moored to the island….to his true home. When he prays the line pulls him toward the correct direction. The more he prays and trusts the stronger the pull. With more prayer some of the newer weeds become loose and give way. The boy now begins to perceive the weeds and that he is tied down. This is an important step because an awareness of the weeds will help in breaking free. More prayer allows the tightness of some of the weeds to lessen and he moves higher. He begins to see the light. The pull of the line has now become very strong. As the intensity of the prayer and frequency of the prayer increases the boy can move more and he is beginning to be able to help in pulling free. 

Yet there may be some very strong weeds that have been there for so long and become so thick that they still resist. These may be things that are hard to give up. Areas we protect. Sometimes we do not even perceive the things that have the tightest hold on us.

One of the promises of the Rosary states: “it will withdraw the hearts of men from the love of the world and its vanities, and will lift them to the desire of eternal things”. Indeed the Rosary has an incredible power to rip us from the attachment of the world. It is thus of great benefit for all souls especially young ones. 

There is something else that can help cut those thick weeds, especially the old ones that have a firm hold. It is fasting. 

Even Our Lord said in the Gospels that certain demons can only be expelled by prayer and fasting (Matthew 17:21). For my own part, I have seen the fruits of the Rosary in my life…a drawing away from many distractions. Yet the world is strong and things are always trying to take hold even when you think you are free. Fasting has been of great benefit in my own life. While weekly fasting is good to help prevent new weeds from taking hold or remove newly attached weeds, longer fasts have the ability to break through the thick, toughest older weeds. Coupling prayer and fasting allows each to become more effective then one by itself. Imagine that through a longer fast the boy is able to break free of all the weeds. While praying his Rosary, he can follow the “life line” to the surface. The pull of the Rosary now has nothing holding it back. The boy moves quickly and without impediment to Our Lord. It is a direct way home. There is no getting lost. 

How many of us have things that weigh on us that hold us back. Things we struggle with interiorly and in our family. How good it would be to purify ourselves. 

It has been a yearly tradition within the Children’s Rosary to do 9 days of prayer and fasting in the fall. This year it will begin on September 29 and end on October 7th. We hope many will want to join us. Bread and water fasting is very effective. Some may not be able to fast on bread and this is okay. Prayerfully discern what is the best fasting for you. In the past, we have had adults and children join this fast. We do ask that you prayerfully consider what is safe and reasonable for you and your family. Some may be able to do a traditional bread and water fast. This is unlimited bread and water. Others may find another thing in their life that would be a great sacrifice to give up for that period. One of the most important things when one begins a fast is the disposition.  One must approach fasting as an act of love to God. 

Some may want to do this fast but have not fasted before and wonder if they could complete 9 days. What I have found is that the first two days are the hardest. There is this portion of each of us which I will call “self” that will complain and nag that you should give up. Do not listen to this. After several days that voice will lessen. I would like to give up some of the merit of my fast for those of you who would like to do this fast but who might at first be intimidated by the duration. I wish to ask Our Lord to grant souls the grace and the strength to say, yes. This is a humble invitation to each soul, an invitation to help to rid yourself of all the things holding you back spiritually. I will be praying for you.
The fast will begin on September 29th the Feast of the Archangels. 


1) Pray one Rosary each day meditating on the life of Christ

2) Fast for 9 days

Listed below are the intentions for this 9 days of prayer and fasting:

*Lord please purify our souls from the attachments of the world. Jesus we surrender all we have, please take control of our lives and our families. May Jesus be born in our hearts and may He renew us. May the Holy Spirit guide our thoughts and actions. May our hands be the extended hands of Mary and Jesus in this world. May the members of the Children’s Rosary also be the extended hands of Mary and Jesus in this world and gather a great many souls especially young people for Our Lord.

*Personal Intentions (      )

*May all that Our Lady wishes to accomplish through us and the Children’s Rosary be accomplished all for the glory of God.

*May the Children’s Rosary View from Heaven never go dark…may it always be illuminated in prayer.

*For a special Children’s Rosary intention.

*In thanksgiving

Popes Have Spoken Beautifully About the Value of Fasting 

Pope Benedict XVI spoke about the value of fasting in his message for Lent on Feb 25th 2009:

The faithful practice of fasting contributes, moreover, to conferring unity to the whole person, body and soul, helping to avoid sin and grow in intimacy with the Lord.
Fasting certainly bring benefits to physical well-being, but for believers, it is, in the first place, a “therapy” to heal all that prevents them from conformity to the will of God.
By freely embracing an act of self-denial for the sake of another, we make a statement that our brother or sister in need is not a stranger. 
Pope John Paul II spoke about fasting on Sunday Angelus March 10th 1996:

Fasting is to reaffirm to oneself what Jesus answered Satan when he tempted him at the end of his 40 days of fasting in the wilderness: “Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God" (Mt 4:4) 

Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Join Us for the 24th International Week of Prayer and Fasting

Children's Rosary held at the 21st International Week and of Prayer
and Fasting Vigil at the National Shrine  of the Immaculate Conception in DC 2013
Consider joining us in this years 24th International Week of Prayer and Fasting.  This week of prayer and fasting for Peace, the Protection of life and the conversion of Nations has received support and blessings from such individuals as St. John Paul II, St Teresa of Calcutta and Pope Francis.  

The Children's Rosary has participated for the past three years.  Beginning in 2013 with a group of children traveling by bus to the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington DC to lead a Children's Rosary at the kick off vigil.  We have continued our involvement by participating each year in the prayers and fasting.  

This week of prayer and fasting will extend from October 2 -10. We hope many of the members of the Children's Rosary will consider being a part of this.  

We would like to humbly ask you to include two additional intentions for your week of prayer and fasting:

May Our Lady's plan for you, your family, the Children's Rosary and how the Children's Rosary affects the world be realized.
May the Children's Rosary, their families, those associated with the Children's Rosary including our priests, Bishops and Our Holy Father the Pope be the extended hands of Our Blessed Mother and Her Son.  May we gather a great many souls especially young people for the Lord.


While many will be fasting on bread and water individuals especially children may consider smaller renunciations that are age appropriate such as sweets or other little sacrifices.


We have found over the past few years more and more members of the Children's Rosary participating.  Families have written that both parents and children have joined in for the week of prayer and fasting.


Pope's have also spoken of the benefits of the holy practice of fasting:

Pope Benedict XVI spoke about the value of fasting in his message for Lent on Feb 25th 2009

The faithful practice of fasting contributes, moreover, to conferring unity to the whole person, body and soul, helping to avoid sin and grow in intimacy with the Lord.

Fasting certainly bring benefits to physical well-being, but for believers, it is, in the first place, a “therapy” to heal all that prevents them from conformity to the will of God.
By freely embracing an act of self-denial for the sake of another, we make a statement that our brother or sister in need is not a stranger.
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Friday, March 25, 2016

We Conclude Our Fast at the Foot of the Cross

Today is the last day of our Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting.  It is the day when Our Lord said, "Not as I will but as You will" (Matthew 26:39).  Today is also when traditionally the Annunciation is celebrated.  "Behold, the handmaid of the Lord; be it done to me according to Thy will" (Luke 1:38).  The Catholic Church transfers celebration of the Annunciation to April 4th this year.  Yet, nine months from March 25th is Christmas so even though celebration of the Annunciation is transferred, one is aware of the wonderful connection of these dates.  

We set out on this journey of prayer and fasting 9 days ago with the hope that on Good Friday we could say with a humble heart before the Cross, "Thy will be done".  Thus saying, YES, to all God has planned for each of us. 

This morning on our last day of the fast, my children gathered round to hear another chapter of the life of St. Jean Vianney that we are reading together.  The chapter as it turned out was called: Conversion of Ars - Prayer and Penance.  St. Jean Vianney had just been assigned to this new country parish and seeing that many had grown distant from the faith he began to offer prayers and penance for the conversion of his parish.  At the end of the chapter an account is given some years later by St. Jean Vianney to a young priest of Montpellier:

"My friend, the devil is not greatly afraid of the discipline and other instruments of penance. That which beats him is the curtailment of one's food, drink and sleep.  There is nothing the devil fears more, consequently, nothing is more pleasing to God.  Oh! how often have I experienced it!  It happened at times that I refrained from food for entire days. On those occasions I obtained, both for myself and for others, whatsoever I asked of Almighty God".  

This was a beautiful gift to have this reading come this morning.  It reminded the children and I that although our fasting was not as austere as St. Jean Vianney, that during this last day there are great graces to be obtained from Our Lord.  Let us not lose even one single grace.  May we take the time to quiet ourself and ask for all that is in our heart...  share all that is troubling us.  When we set out I mentioned that often when we undertake such a journey seeking only God's Will,  those things in our lives that seem stuck...become unstuck. May we lay everything at the foot of the Cross today.  With Our Blessed Mother beside us, let us surrender everything to His Will. Amen.

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Sunday, March 6, 2016

Join Us for a Special Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting!

Please join us for a special Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting! This will begin on March 17th and conclude on March 25th. As we have shared, this year something remarkable will happen. The Annunciation, which traditionally falls on March 25th, is also the day Good Friday is celebrated. The Catholic Church transfers celebration of the Annunciation to April 4th this year. Yet, 9 months from March 25th is Christmas so even though celebration of the Annunciation is transferred, one is aware of the wonderful connection of these dates. Indeed, it is a recognition of the moment Our Lord said, "Not as I will but as you will" (Matthew 26:39), and Our Blessed Mother said, "Behold, the handmaid of the Lord; be it done to me according to Thy will" (Luke 1:38). It is our hope that through this Novena of Prayer and Fasting we might each be able to join our voice to those of Our Lord and Our Lady and say, "Thy will be done" will our whole heart.
In anticipation for the Novena, the children have been busy making hearts. Each person participating in the Novena will have their name placed on a heart. We will be bringing all of these hearts on the evening of March 16th when the Children's Rosary will host the Relics of the Passion. Included in this special Year of Mercy Tour of the Relics of the Passion is a piece of the True Cross. The relics will be coming to a Church named after St. Helena, the person who is credited as discovering the True Cross. For all those who would like to participate in this Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting, you are invited to send your name to be placed at the foot of the Cross on March 16th during the visit of the relics. We will pray and offer up all those names during the evening of prayer. We are inviting all those in the vicinity of St. Helena Church in West Hartford, CT, USA to join us that evening at 7 PM ET. For those who live far away, please unify your prayers with us. We would like to have as many children involved with hosting the Relics of the Passion as possible on the evening of March 16th.
An exciting surprise: first class relics of all 12 Apostles will also be present for the evening of March 16th!!!!

 Novena March 17-25 
1) Pray one Rosary each day meditating on the life of Christ
2) Fast for 9 days

We feel extremely blessed to have the opportunity to begin our fast at the Cross and end with the Cross.  

While some may be able to do a bread and water fast for the nine days, others may find the Lord calling them to some other sacrifice.  The Lord will ask something of each of us. For children, some may be drawn to a level of fasting but careful discernment should be taken with their parents to help find a special sacrifice to give to Our Lord.
Let us fast and pray that we may say Thy Will Be Done on Good Friday and like never before join Our Lord at the cross and bask in His mercy.

If you would like to participate in the Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting and have your name placed before the relic of the True Cross on March 16th, please email Blythe Kaufman at blythe.kaufman@gmail.com to give your name.
Please also email Blythe Kaufman if you have a child who would like to help with the Relics of the Passion Visit on March 16th at St. Helena Church in West Hartford CT. The event will begin at 7 PM. Children involved will be asked to come at 6:15 PM. 

Tuesday, February 9, 2016

Year Of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting

Please join us for a special Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting!  We are just hours away from entering Lent.  Some have shared that there is a feeling that this Lent is special.  There is a desire in one's heart to do something more for Our Lord. Indeed, it is special.  We are within an Extraordinary Jubilee Year of Mercy.  We are making our way toward the Cross, the source of Mercy. The Rosary and Our Lady both lead us to the foot of the Cross.  This year something remarkable also will happen.  The Annunciation, which traditionally falls on March 25th, is also the day Good Friday is celebrated.  The Catholic Church transfers celebration of the Annunciation to April 4th this year.  Yet, 9 months from March 25th is Christmas so even though celebration of the Annunciation is transferred, one is aware of the wonderful connection of these dates. Indeed it is a recognition of the moment Our Lord said, "Not as I will but as you will" (Matthew 26:39) and Our Blessed Mother said, "Behold, the handmaid of the Lord; be it done to me according to Thy will"(Luke 1:38).  What if we, in our humility, could come before the Cross this year and say, "Thy will be done," with our whole heart...allowing all the ties of this world to be stripped away and say, "Yes," to all God has planned for each of us? 
The words of a famous song come to mind, let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.  Yes, may this year be something very special for each of us. Let it begin with each of us.  Recently, I heard a Rabbi speak about the time when God gave Moses the Ten Commandments.  The Rabbi explained that unlike the English language, some languages have a separate word for you singular and you plural.  When God gave the Ten Commandments he chose to use you singular.  His directive was specific to each of us.  Likewise, in reading the life of St. Francis of Assisi one sees that it was only when St. Francis embraced the leper did the Lord begin to bring him a great many people to help with his Apostolic work.  Indeed, it would seem the Lord waits for us to embrace our leper or in another terms open our heart to His will completely which is guided in all things by love.  Once we achieve this, many things in our lives which seemed "stuck" become "unstuck".  
To help us all come before Our Lord on Good Friday this year with a completely open heart, we would like to invite you to participate in a 9 day novena of prayer and fasting from March 17th through March 25th.  The Novena will kick off on the evening of March 16th when the Children's Rosary will host the Relics of the Passion.  Included in this special Year of Mercy Tour of the Relics of the Passion is a piece of the True Cross.  The relics will be coming to a Church named after St. Helena, the person who is credited as discovering the True Cross.  For all those who would like to participate in this Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting you are invited to send your name to be placed at the foot of the Cross on March 16th during the visit of the relics.  We will pray and offer up all those names during the evening of prayer.  We are inviting all those in the vicinity of St. Helena Church in West Hartford, CT USA to join us that evening at 7PM EST.  For those who live far away unify prayers with us. We would like to have as many children involved with hosting the Relics of the Passion as possible on the evening of March 16th.
Novena March 17-25 
1) Pray one Rosary each day meditating on the life of Christ
2) Fast for 9 days

We feel extremely blessed to have the opportunity to begin our fast at the cross and end with the cross.  
While some may be able to do a bread and water fast for the nine days, others may find the Lord calling them to some other sacrifice.  The Lord will ask something of each of us.  For children, some may be drawn to a level of fasting but careful discernment should be taken with their parents to help find a special sacrifice to give to Our Lord.
This past Sunday, the Pastor of our Parish stated, "without risk there is no faith.  The level of risk is proportional to ones faith". Indeed to venture out into the deep as Peter did is a risk, but when we do so for the Lord what will we find in our nets?  Let this be the Lent when we give Our Lord everything.  Let us fast and pray that we may say Thy Will Be Done on Good Friday and like never before join Our Lord at the Cross and bask in His Mercy.
If you would like to participate in the Year of Mercy Novena of Prayer and Fasting and have your name placed before the relic of the True Cross on March 16th please email Blythe Kaufman at blythe.kaufman@gmail to give your name.
Please also email Blythe Kaufman if you have a child who would like to help with the Relics of the Passion Visit on March 16th at St. Helena Church in West Hartford CT.  The event will begin at 7PM.  Children involved will be asked to come at 6:15 PM.

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Gifts

Several members of the Children's Rosary
This past week during our 9 days of prayer and fasting, the Lord has showered a great many gifts down on the Children's Rosary.  I would like to humbly share some of those blessings.  The first 5 days of the fast we spent in San Antonio, Texas.  During those days in San Antonio we met a great many people who interested in helping spread the Children's Rosary.  With members of the Children's Rosary intensifying prayers and also fasting it seemed that many hearts were open to hearing about the Children's Rosary. I would like to share several of the meetings that have happened during the fast.

On our third day in San Antonio, we met a beautiful young blind women in San Fernando Cathedral.  She was very interested in the Children's Rosary and immediately thought of three children she gives singing lessons to at the Cathedral who might be able to help her begin a group.  When I offered to have braille materials sent to her about the Children's Rosary through the Xavier Society for the Blind, she said she could not read braille as her blindness is very new.  My eight year old son and I felt our meeting with her a very special blessing.  She also mentioned that she would be going to a conference in the New Year of cantors from around the country.  She expressed interest in telling those she might meet about the Children's Rosary.  To see such a heart so open to help especially when she was dealing with her recent loss of her sight seemed overwhelming to us. Yet the Lord would continue to show us the charity and love in the hearts of many we would meet on our trip. 

Later in the week during Adoration at St. Joseph Church in San Antonio a father approached my son and asking for prayers for his own 11 year old son who he is having trouble bringing to Mass.  We told him we would pray for his son and shared with him about the Children's Rosary.  Indeed it was also a gift to see a father reaching out and asking the children for help and prayers.  We are all broken in some way and we need each other.  To see another soul asking for help especially from a child was very special.  

The following day we met a mother of eleven after Mass, she was there with several of her young children.  In talking to her about the Children's Rosary I noticed she was having problems hearing and had her daughter repeat many parts of what was said back to her.  She told me she is going deaf.  I felt an immediate connection to this mom and seeing her daughter helping her, it reminded me of my own daughter who is always helping me as I have a joint disability that prevents me from much use of my hands.  

This mother of 11 was very excited to help begin a Children's Rosary in her parish and took some of our materials and also was quick to tell her friends visiting from Sydney, Australia about the Children's Rosary.  


Photo taken by a member of the Children's Rosary
The blessings continued as we were flying home to Connecticut.  A kind women sitting next to my son began to talk to him.  We were preparing to land and she mentioned that she had a rare medical condition that leads to progressive loss of sight.  She said prayer really helps. I asked her what type of prayer.  She said the Rosary.  This opened up a conversation about the Children's Rosary and the possibility she might be able to bring this to her parish and grandchildren.

Indeed it would seem that Our Lord was bringing us special gifts all week.  Showing us the many people who have so much to give.  It would seem since the beginning of the Children's Rosary those with disabilities have had a special place.  As founder of the Children's Rosary, I have a disability and many children and group leaders that have been involved with the Children's Rosary have disabilities as well.  No matter what a person's physical, mental ability or age it would seem Our Lord has a beautiful role for them.  Recently we have been in contact with the priest who is in charge of outreach to deaf community in the Archdiocese of Boston.  This priest is also deaf.  We had the special grace of meeting him at the World Meeting of Families and have subsequently been in touch with him.  He is looking into holding a Children's Rosary monthly with the children who are deaf that gather together for catechises in sign language. To imagine a Children's Rosary composed of all deaf children signing the prayers is a magnificent thought to contemplate.  We pray that in the future this will indeed become a reality. 

May I humbly thank all of you who have increased your prayers this week and also given sacrifices to Our Lord as part of the International Week of Prayer and Fasting.  As a special thank you a Mass is being offered tomorrow, October 25th, through the Capuchin Missions for all the members of the Children's Rosary and all who help the Children's Rosary.

Thank you all and God Bless!

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Friday, October 23, 2015

Add Charity to Truth

Today is day 8 of our 9 day fast.  During the fast I received some beautiful spiritual direction that has been so helpful.  After a good deal of reflection I would like to share it with you.  The advice came at the beginning of the fast during a rocky moment.  To share the advice it may help to share the situation by which the advice was given.  

After the beginning of the first day of our fast and two plane flights that brought us to San Antonio, Texas I was by all estimations exhausted.  After getting checked into the hotel I thought we were all heading to bed.  It was to my surprise that my husband had other plans.  He had lots of work still to do for work that would involve activity in the hotel room.  Although I am sure he was trying to be considerate of not only my sleep but our 8 year old who was also sleeping in the room, the coming and going until 2:30 AM was enough to prevent any solid sleep for myself.  It was during this time that I became upset in my heart.  I began to think of the next day and our plans to visit several sites and how without sleep and the new fast I would be, pretty much a mess.  As my husband was getting into bed, I started to share what I was feeling and basically unload a good deal of my frustration and my worry.  This was not well received by my husband.  Such was the stage for the beginning of the fast...  certainly not ideal.

However the week would bring time for confession, Mass, daily adoration, prayer and of course the continuation of our fast.  In addition to so much help from Our Lord, He also provided spiritual direction through a priest.  I am humbly sharing his advice:

"Add charity to truth". Everything we feel does not need to be communicated. Our Lady is a beautiful example of this.  Holding our tongue gives us an opportunity to reflect and add charity to truth.  He went on to advise additional fasting from words.   He also provided a beautiful reflection he had read based on a quote from St. Margaret Mary Alacoque. Every time that some punishment, affliction or injustice comes your way, say to yourself: "Accept this as sent to you by the Sacred Heart of Jesus Christ in order to unite yourself to him."


One additional thing, Our Lord has shown us is that
even when we stumble we should not be discouraged.
One may find it odd that throughout this week we might continue to find more and more things to add to our fast but as we near the end of the fast we find that it is not food we hunger but a desire to please Our Lord and more perfectly conform to His will.  When we come to Him with this desire, He helps us by showing us the road that leads to that which we seek.  As we walk down that road, we are able to remove more and more things that separate ourselves from Him.  In this way it may seem that we are heaping more and more fasting on ourselves but from within the fast it feels more like more and more grace being delivered and the weight on our shoulders being lessened.

It is never to late to join in the remaining day of our 9 days of prayer and fasting.  To learn more click HERE.

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Wednesday, October 21, 2015

Beauty


Today is day six of our nine days of Prayer and Fasting.  There has been such beauty these days.  As we continue giving Our Lord sacrifices and prayers He shows us beauty as well.  
On Sunday something very special happened during Mass at San Fernando Cathedral.  A homeless man came in during Mass and went to a statue of Our Blessed Mother.  He placed before her two small plants.  They looked pretty sad but it was clear this was all he had.  The man had several bags that seemed to contain all his possessions.  He sat across from me during the remainder of the Mass and made great effort to get to his knees.  It was very moving to be praying with him.  After Mass we spoke and I asked him where he got the plants.  He looked off and with a smile said, "they were blessings".  In looking at the two small plants by all earthly measures they paled in comparison to a wedding bouquet that was present above them.  Yet I felt those plants were the most beautiful plants that Our Lady could receive.  The man had carried them from somewhere.  I can imagine with all his bags it must have been such a struggle to keep them safe.  I suspect the plants might actually have been given to him as a gift which he now was giving to Our Lady.  

To catch a glimpse of such a gift brought a smile to my heart and a joy to see a soul so in love with Our Blessed Mother.  This little window into the tender gift of one soul to Our Lord and His Mother was also an invitation to use this time of fasting to share that which might have been spent on myself on another.  Indeed Our Lord has been so good to open so many doors this week to deeper and deeper fasting.  

The gift of this small block by a stranger this week has also been a way to contemplate the many different ways we can extend our fasting.  While many may be fasting on bread and water, Our Lord seemed to be showing us many ways of fasting not all of them involving food.  In this way, even the children can participate and show Our Lord their love through finding that which they can spare for themselves, and sharing it with those that have less.

Please consider joining us for the remaining three days of the fast if you are not already participating.  Each sacrifice given to Our Lord with love has immense merit.  This international week of prayer and fasting was something Pope John Paul II supported and blessed during his Papacy.  As tomorrow is his Feast it is very special that we are participating in something so close to his heart.  For more information about this week of prayer and fasting click HERE.

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Monday, October 19, 2015

Fast From Resentment & Bitterness

Day four of our fast comes to a close.  Yesterday at Mass a lovely women approached my son and I.  Although she had never met us, she wanted to give us a gift. She took out a little box with different blocks inside.  She asked us to pick one of the blocks.  Seeing the word fasting I reached for a block.  Upon closer inspection I could see each side had a different message about fasting.  

One of the sides of the block read:

Fast from Resentment and Bitterness.  Work on forgiving the people who have hurt you. 

I thought this little block was a beautiful gift and an invitation from the Lord to go deeper with our fasting.  Indeed this was a fasting invitation that  both adults and children could participate.  As we still have 5 more days of our fast I encourage many to take this little invitation from Our Lord.  He is calling us to go deeper with our fast.  

It is never to late to join us.  To learn more about the 9 days of prayer and fasting click HERE.

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How to Start a Children's Rosary 
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Saturday, October 17, 2015

Wheat

Today is day two of our nine day fast. Starting out on such a journey there may be doubts coming and going in your heart.  If I am struggling this much at the beginning how could I last all 9 days.  Yet it is in these first days when one is beginning to say no to the flesh that the battle seems to rage most fiercely.  Whether you are fasting on bread and water or giving up something else there is a renunciation of that which is comfortable and pleasing to the senses.  

Why would we willingly put ourselves through such struggle and sacrifice.  Saints have spoken of the grace that comes through fasting.

"...although we may be able to do but little, the enemy nevertheless stands more in awe of those whom he knows can fast."  - St. Francis de Sales

"Fasting cleanses the soul, raises the mind, subjects one’s flesh to the spirit, renders the heart contrite and humble, scatters the clouds of concupiscence, quenches the fire of lust, and kindles the true light of chastity." 
- St. Augustine

Pope's have also spoken of the benefits of this holy practice:

Pope Benedict XVI spoke about the value of fasting in his message for Lent on Feb 25th 2009

The faithful practice of fasting contributes, moreover, to conferring unity to the whole person, body and soul, helping to avoid sin and grow in intimacy with the Lord.

Fasting certainly bring benefits to physical well-being, but for believers, it is, in the first place, a “therapy” to heal all that prevents them from conformity to the will of God.
By freely embracing an act of self-denial for the sake of another, we make a statement that our brother or sister in need is not a stranger.
Today at daily Mass the priest spoke about St. Ignatius of Antioch.  He shared that facing martyrdom he told those that would kill him, I am the wheat of Christ grind me up!  The words of scripture come to mind, "unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone, but if it dies, it bears much fruit." (John 12:24) It would seem that fasting allows one to deny the flesh and allow us to be more beautifully directed by the Lord.  It is in the crucible of sacrifice that we see so many fruits coming.
It is never to late to join us.  To read more about our participation in this nine days of prayer and fasting click HERE.

Friday, October 16, 2015

Join Us for the 23rd International Week of Prayer and Fasting

Children's Rosary held at the 21st International Week and of Prayer
and Fasting Vigil at the National Shrine  of the Immaculate Conception in DC 2013
Consider joining us in this years 23rd International Week of Prayer and Fasting.  This week of prayer and fasting for Peace, the Protection of life and the conversion of Nations has received support and blessings from such individuals as St. John Paul II, Mother Teresa of Calcutta and Pope Francis.  

The Children's Rosary has participated for the past two years.  Beginning in 2013 with a group of children traveling by bus to the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington DC to lead a Children's Rosary at the kick off vigil.  We have continued our involvement by participating each year in the prayers and fasting.  

Today begins the week of prayer and fasting which will extend from October 16th -24th. We hope many of the members of the Children's Rosary will consider being a part of this.  

We would like tto humbly ask you to include two additonal intentions for your week of prayer and fasting:

May Our Lady's plan for you, your family, the Children's Rosary and how the Children's Rosary affects the world be realized.
May the Children's Rosary, their families, those assoicated with the Children's Rosary including our priests and Bishops and Our Holy Father the Pope be the extended hands of Our Blessed Mother and Her Son.  May we gather a great many souls expecially young people for the Lord.

While many will be fasting on bread and water individuals especially children may consider smaller renunciations that are age appropriate such as sweets or other little sacrifices.


Other Posts You May Enjoy:
Reflections from the International Prayer Vigil 2013
Beautiful Gifts We Received Following the Week of Prayer and Fasting 2014